I can only imagine that according to you anything less than public wailing
is "wrong". How do you manage to judge the love, commitment, and deeply
private thoughts of people you don't even know?
Do you simply draw conclusions from appearances and slap your values on
them? These are the big clown shoes that folks like you trip over all of
the time. You are more concerned with how things "look" versus how things
really ARE!!! Stop wearing blinders and walking with you nose so high in
the air and you won't stumble over those clown shoes.
Here's a random thought: What if they are truly loving children who know
their mom would have wanted them to race? Or perhaps they simply found
peace and consolation behind the wheel knowing they were racing for her?
Should they substitute HER wishes or THEIR beliefs for your narrow concept
of how grieving sons MUST behave to be viewed as "right"?
PS-Imagine yourself for a moment if you had the benefit of a broad
perspective on life by simply removing the blinders and scanning the
horizon. You just might find more depth as a result of adding some breadth.
--
Joe M.