My old Thrustmaster T2 was a great non-FF wheel, very sturdy and well built
with heavy duty pedals and wheel, perfect for a 9 year old to yank around
and beat on, but I doubt you'd be able to find it for sale any longer, at
least not new, perhaps on e-bay, or here at RAS or heck I'd even be willing
to part with mine for a reasonable price.
However if your looking for a force feedback wheel and are in the market for
something new, I'd suggest the MS FF wheel, as it's pretty sturdy and has
been around long enough that you can find one for around $60 and would
probably come with a game or two. Or check out this site
http://gamespot.com/gshw/filters/0,12822,6018763,00.html for a review of
wheels. The best Force feedback wheels cost in excess of $120 these days.
As for games, the Need for Speed series is great, especially the older high
stakes one which I believe is now an EA Classics game and can be found for
around $12, NASCAR Heat is also a great game and again, can be found in the
bargain bin's as it's replacement Heat 2002 is on the way.
Colin McRae Rally 1 or 2 is a great game that isn't too tough and very
intertaining. Likewise Viper racing, ToCA and SCGT are fun and yet more
realistic "sims".
There really isn't any "easy" F1 or Indycar games, they are all much more
sophisticated for a 9 year old, but F1 2000 CS can be found inthe bargain
bins these days for cheep and will ALL driving aids turned on shouldn't be
too difficult to learn.
Another fun arcade game that he'd like is ReVolt, it's a game where you
drive remote control cars around and can shoot pop-bottle rockets and water
balloons at the other cars, loads of fun for a 9 year old.
Hope these suggestions help!
Happy Holidays
JJ